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redrose2 · 04-22-2003, 11:06 PM

Ok ladies, I hope this isn't too personal of a POST, but I REALLY need some help on this. My B.F. has some endurance issues.... TOO MUCH of it that is. According to him it takes about 10min to masterbate which I see as being probably a normal amount of time. However, when It comes to my attempts at stimulation we are looking at 30min minimum. At first I thought I just wasn't pleasing him or something. He continuously assures me that everything I do feels GREAT, and any orgasm he has is FAR stronger than his 10min masterbation. Since he and I are quite close and trusting I've assumed that to be true so lets set asside the notion that maybe I just suck at this. I mean I've had other B.F. and haven't had too much trouble with them. He however is quite the marathon man, and I think it bothers him. I mean endurance is one thing, but he isn't even trying to hold it sometimes and it takes forever! It's been eight months and we have just started having sex. Well attempting I should say... We've fooled around a couple times without a condom just to see if it would fit

He isn't porn star huge or anything, but much bigger than anything I've ever had. Anyway our first attempt failed after 2 and a half hours of 6 different postions, 2 condoms (he went soft after the phone rank and the caller id showed his parents

), and 1/4 bottle of lub. We ended up collapsing for the night and I woke him up with a hand job to show there were no harsh feelings

.

My Questions are, what is going on!?!? and can ANYBODY help!! Are there any tried and true methods of hand jobs and blow jobs that I am missing? Should I perhaps switch to the pill cause the condoms we were using are less sensitive? Is there anything opposite to tantric sex we should try? BTW he knows all about tantric sex but swears up and down that he doesn't do it cause it already takes him so long. Finally, does anybody know of a good fix for sore lips cause a 30 min blow job HURTS!!!

Here is something to leave you with to further emphasis how SERIOUS this is... He has once eatten ME out in 5 min... I feel like I'm the man here by coming so quickly. Please help me take back my right to be able to get HIM off quicker!

04-22-2003, 11:06 PM	#1 (permalink)
redrose2 Upright	Endurance Issues Ok ladies, I hope this isn't too personal of a POST, but I REALLY need some help on this. My B.F. has some endurance issues.... TOO MUCH of it that is. According to him it takes about 10min to masterbate which I see as being probably a normal amount of time. However, when It comes to my attempts at stimulation we are looking at 30min minimum. At first I thought I just wasn't pleasing him or something. He continuously assures me that everything I do feels GREAT, and any orgasm he has is FAR stronger than his 10min masterbation. Since he and I are quite close and trusting I've assumed that to be true so lets set asside the notion that maybe I just suck at this. I mean I've had other B.F. and haven't had too much trouble with them. He however is quite the marathon man, and I think it bothers him. I mean endurance is one thing, but he isn't even trying to hold it sometimes and it takes forever! It's been eight months and we have just started having sex. Well attempting I should say... We've fooled around a couple times without a condom just to see if it would fit He isn't porn star huge or anything, but much bigger than anything I've ever had. Anyway our first attempt failed after 2 and a half hours of 6 different postions, 2 condoms (he went soft after the phone rank and the caller id showed his parents ), and 1/4 bottle of lub. We ended up collapsing for the night and I woke him up with a hand job to show there were no harsh feelings . My Questions are, what is going on!?!? and can ANYBODY help!! Are there any tried and true methods of hand jobs and blow jobs that I am missing? Should I perhaps switch to the pill cause the condoms we were using are less sensitive? Is there anything opposite to tantric sex we should try? BTW he knows all about tantric sex but swears up and down that he doesn't do it cause it already takes him so long. Finally, does anybody know of a good fix for sore lips cause a 30 min blow job HURTS!!! Here is something to leave you with to further emphasis how SERIOUS this is... He has once eatten ME out in 5 min... I feel like I'm the man here by coming so quickly. Please help me take back my right to be able to get HIM off quicker!