I don't want to sound too harsh or anything, but you really have to ask yourself whether or not you like being abused. Because no matter what anyone else says, that is exactly what he is doing.
My sister went through this type of relationship with her first love/ fiancee, it wasn't until Christmas that she realized that he didn't love her. He gave her her engagment ring, after being engaged for about 6 months, with a little note attached to it, basically saying that he loved her but he hated her family and that she needed to choose between him and us. Well, she chose wisely, and got drunk :-).
So, I agree with all of the other ladies, but I got a different feel of it probably than they did. You need to take a few months or weeks off from him and decide if you REALLY need him or if you THINK that you need him.
Just my two cents worth.
Megs
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