As always the trick is communication....tell her you would like to do it to please her. It could be, as mentioned, just the normal hangup's a lot of women have as far as being sexually open. It took me a long long time to discover the key to great sex was being open and speaking my mind and not being afraid to say no also. It's amazing the number of women who are afraid to try things because it's not "proper" or "socially acceptable". Took me years and meeting a wonderful person who opened my eyes to realize that it's all good. As long as you communicate your needs to her and vice versa it can be wonderful. Maybe she is just shy, or is a victim of the many many pressures that keep women from expressing their needs and desires. Keep in mind that we are over-all programmed to supress our needs. She just may need a bit of honesty, openness and you letting her know how much you want her to enjoy the experience.
For the sake of both of you...I hope it all works out!
