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I know from my own experience that I was raised in a very strict home with strong extremely conservative beliefs. To begin with it took me a while to learn to enjoy some aspects of sex. I still find that I ma most comfortable in the missionary position but have learned that other positions and sexual play is very exciting and fun. I've even gotten to the point where I enjoy women as well. It was a step by step thing. One question is - Does she mind if you finger her or does she mind giving you oral. Talk things out and take things one step at a time. There are one or two things that I absolutely will not do with Hubby or anyone else - ever. But at this point I have no more hangups. On some things Hubby has been quietly persistant and I have given in to try things out - once I tried them out I learned they weren't as bad as I thought - rather they were fun and exciting. If this girl and you click on every other level except sex than I would say it is worth it to find out why she is reserved and patiently work with her to help her enjoy sex more. She will thank you for it and or course you will reap the rewards.
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"Always learn the rules so that you can break them properly." Dalai Lama
My Karma just ran over your Dogma. 
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