When I have more time I'll reply with how I learned to breathe through my ears.....
...but for know...
I'd like to thank Nikki for both the erection in my drawers, and the knowledge she is spreading. The most important thing you can do is ASK! Find out exactly what he wants and loves. One mind blowing technique on one guy doesn't necessarily work quite as well on the next. Do your homework; learn; practice...practice...practice...
Knowledge and communication are king. If you are not comfortable asking, or he is not comfortable telling you, than talk to your friends that are male, and find out what they like in general. Most of my ex-girlfriends owe their mind-blowing orgasms to what I learned from those I've never slept with. I am lucky to have a few friends who are open, comfortable, and willing to discuss the best ideas on cunnilingus with me. Listen to what Nikki has to say, she seems to know her shit.
And one last thing...I'll add my own two cents for all of you. motdakasha touched upon it; use your hands too! I'm a guy who takes about 45 minutes to climax from a great blowjob. I usually don't, because I start to feel bad after about 20 minutes and make her stop, because I've heard how facially uncomfortable it can become. Deft hand movement can both cut the time to climax in half, and give you plenty of opportunity to rest your face between sloggings. And if he's comfortable with it; tickle his a-hole with your free hand...it's fuckin' rad! Don't go in unless asked though, because most of us find that uncomfortable.
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