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Originally posted by World's King
For most of society it's an urban legand...
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Do you think that's really true? I hear it talked about in hushed tones like it's some unattainable holy grail or something, but at least half of the women I have been with liked it before they met me and out of the rest, more than a few were converts. Of the converts, I can tell you they specifically hadn't liked it before me because they were with guys who were just trying to jam it in there. That
did hurt and I can't blame them for not liking it. I tend to prefer being with - and consequentially I probably attract - open, communicative people so maybe that has something to do with it. I don't hang well in close personal relationships with people who have a stack of hang-ups, sexual or otherwise and I'm sure that causes some bias in my experience, but still... I can't be meeting the
only women who like it.
Take your time, don't rush it. Start small - a finger, a lick here and there when you're going down on her - and when you do finally go in, she'll probably give it a shot, so don't waste the oppotunity to make a good impression. Make sure everything's well-lubed (whether naturally or artificially; I frequently end up there after I've been elsewhere so everything's kinda slippery anyway) and let HER control the pace. It can take a full 2 or 3 minutes to get all the way in the first few times and when you are, don't start banging away full-tilt. Stay still for a bit and let her get used to the feeling; she's relaxing muscles she's not used to relaxing voluntarily. When you do start to move, go slow. Let her tell you when it's ok to speed up. After a few sessions of this, if she's getting into it, she'll probably be ok with you really going at it. Or... she may still not like it and you cross it off the list of activities. (shrug) depends on her, really...
And never, ever back into the vagina. Almost guaranteed yeast infection and that's no fun for either of you. I don't think so, anyway. I
have seen some weird stuff on the Wayside, so I shouldn't make assumptions like that...
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Can a woman orgasm from anal sex?
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Yes, definitely. Again, it all depends on the woman and how into the activity she is in the first place. If she's doing it as a favor to you, the odds are pretty low. If she actively likes it, there's a pretty good chance.