Shock horror! Women human too!
Unfortunately you just have to deal with what's handed down to you, and in our society looks matter more than personality... at least in a forum such as internet dating.
I can honestly say that I've come up against this in the past. I'm well-educated, I've got a good, steady job, I'm not addicted to crack or beer, I'm not violent, I'm funny, and I am ready to satisfy all sexual demands at any time of the day or night. My ex-girlfriend regularly used to tell me I was the sweetest man she'd met.
My problem? I'm 5 feet tall. Can I get a woman to look at me as a potential mate? Can I fuck. Even when I get the opportunity to show them what a great guy I am, they still never think of me 'in those terms' because there's always some 6 foot tall wifebeater over the way who they'd much rather fuck.
I'm not bitter, but I wish I could make it all out.
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