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Originally posted by crayzeeredhead
okay whike I am a woman and agree that women can be heartless and shallow, I will here and now state that we use it differently than men.
I for one appreciate a good looking man but i would never degrate him in front of friends like you guys do! We dontr say stuff like oooooh look at his bulge its kinda small or betcha he's easy (even though we know u are)!! ya'll tend to get in a group and look at us like a fresh piece of steak ready for devouring! HELL YES we look but we tend to make sexual choices based on how you act! AND YES guys we do just have a one night stand but we are atleast honest about it instead of saying bullshit we dont mean just to get in your pants!!
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I beg to differ on your arguements:
* Obviously you haven't been on the other side of a rejection from a woman, especially in front of her friends
I'm sure many men can attest to the fact that they have degrated several times in their past. (you win some, you lose some)
* And yes, ladies can too look at a man as a piece of meat.
The only difference I've seen, is that men tend to exaggerate or generalize, and women get down to the details
* No, I've seen women many times make their decisions according purely for looks, not for personality.
* And no, women are not honest about one-night stands,
they lie or deflect all the time (even to themselves),
due to the fact they want to keep their rep & sense of self-worth.
* And yes they bullshit just like anyone else to get what they want,
and bullshit to get out of it, if they have changed their minds.
Let's not be hypocrites here
Let's face facts, about your gender, your friends & yourself.
And while YOU may be an exception,
there are more than enough women out there that are being bad seeds
that you can't make general statements like that
about men or women.
Human are humans
There are good, there are bad
And there are also basically good people sometimes doing good or selfish things.
So let's not go pointing fingers.