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My take on this issue....men and women are both the same. Period. We BOTH like to say that it's the intelligence, humor, wit, etc etc of a person we are attracted to. Which is, ultimately, true in both cases. BUT....(here's the biggie) both sexes (I believe) also need that "mmmmm....nummy" part of it.
We all know it...that little gut-wrenching feeling you get when you look at someone and go ga-ga. It's the click, the zap, it's the chemistry.
As in all other ways, men and women are the same. There are different stereotypes we both have to deal with, the same types of peer pressure...etc. We are HUMAN. End of story!
Are you going to run into shallow women who only want to hang on to the arm of some jock...yes, yes you are. Are you also going to find some jock who just wants a trophey girl....yes, yes you are. Does that make one worse than the other? Nope.
I would like to say that it's only the inside of a person that matters.....as far as my life-mate....I also hope he gives me that "mmmmmmm I want to do you now" feeling when I see him....I want the goosebumps....the sexual attraction. Men do too. See...we are all the same!
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