To quote Ozzy:
Good intentions pave the way to hell.
And Yoda:
Do or do not. There is no try.
And Jim Kata:
Unshithead.
I once offered a 20 pound turkey that I got for free from work as a Christmas present to a family who lived in the same apartment building as I did. They looked at me as if I was insane, and walked away without saying a word. Later found out (the headgear should have been a clue) that they were Indian (from India), Hindu, and vegetarian. I was told that they considered it an insult to be offered food from a stranger. Oops. Hooda thunkit?