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Originally posted by Harshaw
Could saying "I love you" screw up a relationship.
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Not a good, healthy one.
If you're saying it for reasons other than that you just can't NOT say it (e.g., to get someone into bed, to get them to say it back to you, because you're afraid they'll leave if you don't, etc.) then yes, it could screw up the relationship.
If you're afraid that she won't reciprocate for some reason, then it sounds like it's time for a talk. "I love you and I hope you feel the same about me. If you don't then..." and what comes after the "..." is up to you.