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gov135 · 07-17-2003, 11:36 AM

Whether or not it can screw it up - I don't know.

Advice on how to say it? I got that. I found that "I have feelings for you" or the like is an easy way to get into the conversation. After all, the hardest part of saying "I love you" is often finding the right time. Make sure you have some time to talk and nothing crazy is goin on. Also, saying "i have feeling for you" or the like gives her some control. She can ask, "describe your feelings for me" or "when did you start to have feelings for me", and in this way she is not blindsided by anything.

I don't recommend a letter at all. Face-to-face allows you to have a discussion about things. A letter is too anti-climactic, and may be misinterpruted. Our tone of voice and body language speaks volumes. You lose those with a letter.

Worked for me. She'll appreciate your sincere thoughts, so she'll listen to you. Good luck.

07-17-2003, 11:36 AM	#3 (permalink)
gov135 Junkie Location: Midwest	Whether or not it can screw it up - I don't know. Advice on how to say it? I got that. I found that "I have feelings for you" or the like is an easy way to get into the conversation. After all, the hardest part of saying "I love you" is often finding the right time. Make sure you have some time to talk and nothing crazy is goin on. Also, saying "i have feeling for you" or the like gives her some control. She can ask, "describe your feelings for me" or "when did you start to have feelings for me", and in this way she is not blindsided by anything. I don't recommend a letter at all. Face-to-face allows you to have a discussion about things. A letter is too anti-climactic, and may be misinterpruted. Our tone of voice and body language speaks volumes. You lose those with a letter. Worked for me. She'll appreciate your sincere thoughts, so she'll listen to you. Good luck. Last edited by gov135; 07-17-2003 at 11:38 AM..