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Do you want to just seduce her or do you want to be in a relationship?
If it's strait seduction, then there's not much I can say that isn't shown in a ton of movies, and most of it is really about studying her and guessing.
But if you're looking for a meaningful relationship... The way I see it, its not about standing out so she’ll notice you. Trying to get others to like you takes a lot of work and I don't see the payoff. I've found in the times when I'm "trying" to attract others I'm doing all sorts of weird contortions to get attention. I hid the parts of me that I thought she wouldn’t like and I was always on, trying to be funny, insightful, or whatever I thought she would want. In the times it worked, I always found myself unhappy because I felt she didn’t really like me, but some on-guard caricature of me. This was my experience, yours might be completely different.
The way I finally found my love was by strongly being myself. Instead of getting others to like me, I went for really liking me. (This is different from being cocky) I’ve found when I really like myself, I laugh more and am more open and engaged in the lives of others (like that special hot Goddess).
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