Honestly, this is kind of a damned if you do, damned if you don't situation - most guys really don't respond well at all to pressure. Along those lines, initially seeing a professional (for advice not sex

) is a good idea, but if you end up wanting to talk to him in a therapy setting, I'd get him to make his own choice of counselor.
Otherwise it'll be an us vs them situation.
oh, and as for
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Originally posted by Kadath
(a council would be a group of people, as per the Council of Elrond, a counsellor is one ON a council. No such word as councilor or counciling.)
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Sorry to be pedantic, but you brought it up first - councilor does indeed appear to be a word:
http://dictionary.reference.com/search?q=councilor%20