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wow...how incredibly shallow. beauty is in the eye of the beholder blah blah blah we all know how the saying goes. but honestly, beauty will get you nowhere worth going in everyday situations. if somebody gives you special treatment because of your looks then they deserve you giving them a cold shoulder.
if i have to deal with another female who i see as having attractive qualities, yeah, i admire that...but if i see her treating others poorly or acting ugly, that pretty much shatters anything physical away. i'd say the woman who is kind and giving is one who is more attractive, no matter what sort of "flaws" she has. she is the one who will go further in life because people who matter will notice her.
i'd don't see what the big deal is with getting attention from strangers who think you're good looking. big whoop. if you self esteem is that low that you need for strangers to notice you then you need a new focus in life. i'd much rather be noticed for a skill or personality trait than because i have a nice ass.
and as women we can raise the bar for men in that area. don't encourage praise for your physical beauty; allow others to notice your other qualities.
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