I think the real question is what is pretty? I am average looking -- a little on the heavy side, but in good shape. Recently I met my "soul mate" (the most wonderful man - hi sweetheart if you read this!) I've noticed a real shift on how people treat me when I'm out in public simply because I'm presenting myself in a very upbeat mode. Pretty is a lot to do with attitude! I think it is a shame that our society focuses so much on looks. I have yet to meet a woman who is totally satisfied with the way she looks -- including my "super model" friends. What counts is accepting yourself and presenting a positive attitude to the world -- then you are truly beautiful!
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If you can go deeply into lovemaking, the ego disappears. That is the beauty of lovemaking, that it is another source of a glimpse of god
It's not about being perfect; it's about developing some skill at managing imperfection.
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