Don't smoke alot of weed.. then maybe you can talk to the girls
Can you go clubbin yet? I don't know what the age is that you have to be over there, but yeah, usually you go out clubbin for abit, pick up, if she's nice keep her
And it's usually just a waiting game till the right person comes along. Some people find their 'other' early in life, others take almost a lifetime to find them. So don't stress, she's out there somewhere