As described by hal, #2 can be a great way to express your fantasies that you don't typicaly act out in real life. I don't believe in the "it's cheating" school of thought either. It can also improve your real sex life by loosening your inhibitions that are already wired into your head. As a TFP'r who I can't remember once said "Who cares were you get your appetite as long as you're eating at home?"
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