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Originally posted by *Nikki*
I have never had a problem bringing a man to orgasm while giving a BJ.
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My, don't WE have a big head (pun intended) about this?
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It is all about technique gentlemen.
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No, it's not. It has happened exactly three times to me in about 15 years of sexual activity and 25 to 30 partners. With the ones that it did happen with, it only happened once. I _love_ the activity, but it just doesn't even get me close to the edge 98% of the time and of the other 2%, it's often
just close and that's because she's doing a phenomenal job. I came to realize long ago that it's something in my head and stopped worrying about it. The biggest problem I ever have is being with someone new and having to assure her repeatedly that it's nothing she's doing wrong and please don't stop doing it - I've found that a warning before she ever does it once goes a long way towards smoothing this for both of us.
Women are fond of reminding men that you usually have to engage their heads or they're not going to get there... and a lot of men are the same way. It's just that usually, it's not a complicated process with men.
