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Originally posted by Meridae'n
If it's one thing a girl likes it's a 'renovator's dream'. I know this isn't going to go down well with you ladies, but nearly every girl I've known well has admitted to going for the guys that have something about them that needs to be fixed.
There's 3 things that I'm passionate about : wakeboarding, my mates, and horse racing. There's only one girl I've ever gone out with that hasn't tried her damndest to minimise/expel these things from my life. The last girl i went out with was so obvious in her attempts to get me to give these things up that in the end it came between us.
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Ah I love generalizations....that all women are out there trying to change their man. Sorry but as in all other aspects of life there are exceptions to the rules. There are chicks who do this and there are just as many that don't - same goes for the men too.
I speak from experience as the person I was with for over seven years ended up stifling me by trying to change me and deny me the things I liked to do. It became a little prison with the warden trying to be in complete control. No way, not for me as I believe that with any good relationship you need to allow your SO to be their own person and to have their own interests and time to themselves.
This gets way off the original topic but please do not try to pidgeon hole all women into one category as it happens to us too!