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I went through something similar after about a year of marriage...just got freaked out because one time I was "not interested" and the tiniest negative comment (wasn't used to that!) gave me a complex for several months. That coupled with knowing that EVERY time for now on was gonna be with that same person...really messed with me. Sex felt like work, extra pressure I didn't need and I avoided it for about 6 months. Pressure and sex don't mix well for guys! I had more "episodes" after that, finally my wife just told me we were going to be together a very long time and it was OK, etc...(instead of saying "what's wrong? is it me?" etc.. and acting like we have this big problem)
It was over then.
Gee, that was a lot of personal info but I am just trying to throw suggestions out there because sex problems suck!
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