Welcome, SabrinaFair!
That's a really good question. I think that it would be more difficult to be ugly. First of all, just because...YOU know you're ugly, no matter what the rest of the world thinks. That would tear me down, personally. Also, I see ugly girls get shat on time and time again by friends and boyfriends...sometimes even family members, just because they are easy targets. Not to mention, I am almost sure that employers would be more likely to hire an attractive person over an ugly person, assuming the qualifications were the same.
I think, like Nikki, that pretty girls have it made. I am an attractive girl...sometimes I get special treatment because of it, I think. I know that I've made girlfriends because of my pretty stature (which I don't think is right), and I've gotten further along in work situations because of it (I used to cocktail). Also, my bosses when I was a receptionist used to tell me they were going to train me in sales and send me out in a short skirt.
My best friend is the super-model-look-a-like girl, and I'm not EVEN going to go into her treatment.
I am glad you brought this to our attention. I am going to make an effort to notice whether or not I treat women differently because of their appearence and make sure that I take corrective measures if I do.
...always a work in progress.