I don't know if this has anything to do with it, but my first few months of marriage were WEIRD, and one way it showed up was sexually.
I felt like my dad. I mean, not just in the way that I usually do--I look like him, sound like him, sort of think like him. I mean, I actually felt myself walking around feeling like my dad. And there was all this stuff that I felt like I "should" be doing, because now I'm a Husband. And lurkette was my Wife, and that Meant Something. I had to be Appropriate and Husbandly.
It was several months before I could really relax and be horny old me again.
