Some of the advice here is at odds with the situation. ie ... Noodle should approach this problem, but not be seen as pressuring / pushing him. That's a very fine balancing act.
In the end, there is a problem, and the way I see it, it is Noodle's husband that has the problem / issue .. made worse by him not acknowledging it. And Noodle shouldn't now be made to feel like she is causing it or exacerbating the problem.
If he can't express or explain why his sex drive dropped so low, then it is time for counselling.
(Just as an aside, I personally can't comprehend the idea of a man not being all that interested in sex.)
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