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Originally posted by sexymama
His looking at porn bothers me no more than me reading a "love" novel bothers him. They are simply a ways to a mean. Truth be known, I don't have the most wonderful body in the world; but my bf is with me! It is me, including who I am in bed, that he loves -- not my body. The woman and/or men on the net are just pictures. Who could love a picture?
That said, if/when I walk in on bf looking at porn, I simply put my lovely tits between him and the computer screen. The porn is of no interest now! Either that, or join him. I don't particularly get off on porn; but I like the artistic pictures. Why not enjoy with him because in the long run it is me he is thinking about!
It may be that his looking bothers you because of our societies extreme views which cause us, as woman, to question or own self image and value. Being confident in your lovers commitment to you and in your own esteem, helps tremedously, so do talk about it!
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The only thing I have confidence in is the fact that if/when he score's one of those hotties,he'd dump me so fast my head would spin.Face it ladies,they look and drool because those women are what they realy want.The rest of us are just convient holes that they settled for.Screwing us is better than beating off and will get them thru till the next hotttie comes along.