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Scare tactics don't work. People will do what they want to do. My dad had throat cancer from smoking, he died a few months ago. All my brother's friends were still smoking outside the funeral home. When I found out he had cancer 3 years ago, I was a smoker, and I kept smoking cause I needed it to calm me down. Unless you were a smoker, you have no idea what it takes to get someone to quit. It's a mental thing they need to do.
Cause you're only starting to date her, I'm surprised she's following through and submitting to some of your early "demands". Personally, I think if you're trying to change a girl 5 seconds into your relationship, that's just a sign of things to come and you should go find a girl who doesn't smoke. Yeah, yeah, she's hot, blah blah blah.
If you're thinking about doing any more than simply asking her to quit, I'd be shocked if it worked.
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