I have had plenty of female friends, in fact the vast majority of thme have been. Did I want to sleep with them? Quite possibly now that I think back, but it was never such that it ever effected anything I did or said. Of course, that isn't to say now when I make friends with a girl the thing running in the back of my head is I want to sleep with her. I usualy just avoid girls I don't. Does this make the ladder theory true? No, not at all, I'm perfectly happy having female friends I will never sleep with, nor willl I ever let it affect the advice I give. But nothing changes the gentic urge to do so.
As for dealing with women, it has quite changed my view. Will I accept there are rare people who don't fit this, there is the fact that women are genetically attracted to power (and it's sub, money). Yes, I realize this puts a blatent generalization on the issue, but there are very few cases where I find it to be the opposite.
The one female I sent this too, who I find to be quite open minded and honest said it's 'awsome' and based of something or nother I can't remember. Then she asked if I wanted to sleep with her, but that's an entire other topic.
Leviathan
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