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Reign · 07-11-2003, 10:24 AM

urgodhere and fellow TFP members,

I've never posted before but I feel the need to post in this one as I myself have been having this exact problem with my finacee'.

Here is the situation as of last night:

I go down on her all the time and nearly every time I bring her to an orgasm but the gesture is never returned. She doesn't even go down on me...at all. She also rarely touches my penis as things were.

But just last night I figured out a way to get her more interested in my body. We were getting a little freaky last night which usually involves me teasing the hell out of her by massaging her vagina / clit and kissing her neck. When she told me she "wanted me" I told her that I'm not quite ready and that I need a little attention. She didn't go down on my but she got really close which drove me wild. Because she was procrastinating I decided to go down on her. I made her beg. Right when I penetrated her she asked me if I was ready, I told her "no" and that I wanted her to return the favor but I still wanted her equally as much. The end result was that we had sex for about 2 hours straight and I came 4 times and her 3. She asked were I got this energy from and I told her it was because of the small attention she gave me. Even just that little bit.

That was kinda' a lie because I can usually last that long anyway but because she showed some effort I gave her what she needed plus a little more. I felt so close to her as I felt that she was as there and as into it as I usually am.

So what you need to do is play hardball. When she tells you she wants you, you say "I don't know if I'm ready yet" and hope that she takes matters in to her own hands (so to speak). You situation may be a little bit different than mine but it's worth a try.

Just because a man can get an erection by just sneezing that doesn't mean we are ready to have sex. Make her understand that and things will be great.

I how ever am pretty sure that I'm scheduled to get a BJ from the one I love. We wil see.

Good Luck,
-R...

07-11-2003, 10:24 AM	#21 (permalink)
Reign Upright	urgodhere and fellow TFP members, I've never posted before but I feel the need to post in this one as I myself have been having this exact problem with my finacee'. Here is the situation as of last night: I go down on her all the time and nearly every time I bring her to an orgasm but the gesture is never returned. She doesn't even go down on me...at all. She also rarely touches my penis as things were. But just last night I figured out a way to get her more interested in my body. We were getting a little freaky last night which usually involves me teasing the hell out of her by massaging her vagina / clit and kissing her neck. When she told me she "wanted me" I told her that I'm not quite ready and that I need a little attention. She didn't go down on my but she got really close which drove me wild. Because she was procrastinating I decided to go down on her. I made her beg. Right when I penetrated her she asked me if I was ready, I told her "no" and that I wanted her to return the favor but I still wanted her equally as much. The end result was that we had sex for about 2 hours straight and I came 4 times and her 3. She asked were I got this energy from and I told her it was because of the small attention she gave me. Even just that little bit. That was kinda' a lie because I can usually last that long anyway but because she showed some effort I gave her what she needed plus a little more. I felt so close to her as I felt that she was as there and as into it as I usually am. So what you need to do is play hardball. When she tells you she wants you, you say "I don't know if I'm ready yet" and hope that she takes matters in to her own hands (so to speak). You situation may be a little bit different than mine but it's worth a try. Just because a man can get an erection by just sneezing that doesn't mean we are ready to have sex. Make her understand that and things will be great. I how ever am pretty sure that I'm scheduled to get a BJ from the one I love. We wil see. Good Luck, -R...