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Originally posted by Holo
But I'm thinking of this particular situation. He said it would destroy his gf if he cheated...obviously she thinks that they should be exclusive but has aquiesced to his desire for fear of losing him altogether. It obviously shows how much she values him.
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Well, fair enough but I read it as low self-esteem on her part. She's acquiescing even though she's really not ok with it and if that's true, hell, he can get away with this forever. She'll always take him back.
But who wants to live like that? I have yet to see such a situation lead to happiness for either person. Just because you can get away with it, that doesn't imply you should actually do it. Take the high road whenever possible, ya know?