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Originally posted by Holo
It all boils down to "you can't have your cake and eat another girl's pussy too".
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Says you. It completely depends on the girlfriend/wife. There's a big difference between a woman that you have to coerce into this situation and the one who's asking you. Nothing's black and white, dude - adjust to your environment.
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Originally posted by Rococo
Anyway so I'm very up for doing the 3-some but it's been a totall flop so far because i've tried to suggest it to 2 of her friends and it's all good to joke about, but when it comes down to it, no fuckin way. too weird. So does anyone know how I can get her friends to do a 3-way? I think this will be the cure!!
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I would seriously have to direct you away from doing it with anyone either of you already know. That is also asking for trouble. If it just happens one night after a jacuzzi and some wine coolers, so be it, but I wouldn't go seeking that out. If you're serious about it and she's really on board, you'd do better having her come on to a girl in a dance club or something and go from there. Besides, it gets her more involved in the process... let her pick someone _she's_ attracted to and it's all a lot smoother. And with a stranger, there's little weirdness afterwards - no competition between the girls, etc. You can choose to see that person again or not.
As for "the cure"... I don't know, friend. It sounds like you're looking at this the wrong way. The only "cure" is working through this with her. Adding someone else to the mix can be a lot of fun, but I'd generally not recommend it to someone who's trying to rescue a relationship with it, ya know? It's a pretty low-percentage shot...