You have a few options:
1) Cheat. Go find another woman and have sex with her. Pray it is only a one-night stand because a long drawn out relationship is not only emotionally messy but a lot easier to get caught. Also be prepared to deal with the consequences of your actions. If you get caught you will have to deal. If you feel guilty you will have to deal.
2) Go to a massage parlour/escort. Pay money to a professional to relieve that sexual itch. Men have been doing it for centuries. Play safe. You should also note that guilt can rear its ugly head here as well. The upside is no messy second relationship. There is also the major convenience factor... very beautiful women (perhaps more so than you could expect from a bar pick up) who don't want to tie you down and won't call your house at an inopportune moment.
3) Don't seek extra-relationship sex. Masturbate frequently. Get much sex from your partner. Fantasize. This can (and does) work for many men.
Ultimately you must either learn to be happy with what you have and fight your internal voice (the one that makes your cock want something else) or give in to tempation in the best way possible. A way that will cause you the least amount of grief and still allow you to carry on with the woman you love.
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"My hands are on fire. Hands are on fire. Ain't got no more time for all you charlatans and liars."
- Old Man Luedecke
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