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Good to hear it's not doomed to fail erion!
I've had a similar experience and my theory is that the girl is either convinced that deep down, he's a good kid and she's trying to save him, or, somewhat more complex, she feels she's invested so much energy and emotion in him and still not getting the appreciation she wants from him. I find it hard to put it into words, but a blunt comparison would be losing badly at gambling and refusing to give up until you've had atleast one good win. Can get pretty desperate.
Whatever the case may be, this could go on for a couple of weeks, or many many years. And nothing changes untill you cut the cords.
I know that's painful, but hopefully liberating aswell.
Much strength to you!
And let us know if you take steps, I'm always curious to see how things turn out
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