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actionplant · 07-10-2003, 12:07 AM

I'm definitely with you on the olive oil. It's all we use anymore, and what's really fun is you can get it all over. Seems once you're covered with it the two of you will have even fewer inhibitions (if that's even possible), plus the different sensation of oily skin sliding on oily skin is incredible. Also, from a medical standpoint, don't worry about the bacteria. We consume a LOT of oils, lots of which get broken down inside of our bodies and absorbed yes, but still many pass through in our feces. Also, the concern doesn't seem justified, simply because bacteria in our intestines is NECESSARY for the final step in the digestive process. Finally, feces is in general coarse, and it should only take two to three passes to elminiate (scrape out) almost all traces of whatever oil you used.

Anyway, we'd talked about different things, but she brought up anal and asked if I'd ever wanted it. I just told her I was up for trying lots of different things, and she said maybe someday. The thing is, don't push her. It seems to me that lots of women are really nervous about it. Instead of pressuring her (which will lead to lots of stress for her if she gives in, and she won't enjoy it as much under stress!) just let her get used to the idea and let you try it on HER time. If you never get it, don't worry about it! You'll survive. And if and when you do, here are a few more pointers.

Don't go from her anus back to any other hole. Just don't. It's simply not safe (for her).

Wash up afterward, most certainly. You can wind up with some uglies on your wang if you don't...whether you see it on there or not, you come out with matter on it. Thrusting will create a vacuum, and even if she's vacated, the sex will still suck SOME matter down (usually fluid feces) and you may not even notice if you're properly lubed.

And that's the final thing. Make sure you've used a finger or two to get the hole well lubed and loosened. Make sure she's relaxed, or she WILL tear, no matter how gentle you are. It's tender tissue in there, and if you tear, it will REALLY hurt her when next she vacates.

If she's used to you playing around in that area, don't be afraid to have her play around yours. Liking stimulation in your ass area has nothing to do with your sexual preference; there are a lot of nerves packed into the area, and it can be very stimulating for both of you. We finger each-others' assholes all the time; it's an awesome turn-on and, if need be, can help push you both over the edge if you're on a schedule.

07-10-2003, 12:07 AM	#30 (permalink)
actionplant Upright Location: Bismarck, ND	I'm definitely with you on the olive oil. It's all we use anymore, and what's really fun is you can get it all over. Seems once you're covered with it the two of you will have even fewer inhibitions (if that's even possible), plus the different sensation of oily skin sliding on oily skin is incredible. Also, from a medical standpoint, don't worry about the bacteria. We consume a LOT of oils, lots of which get broken down inside of our bodies and absorbed yes, but still many pass through in our feces. Also, the concern doesn't seem justified, simply because bacteria in our intestines is NECESSARY for the final step in the digestive process. Finally, feces is in general coarse, and it should only take two to three passes to elminiate (scrape out) almost all traces of whatever oil you used. Anyway, we'd talked about different things, but she brought up anal and asked if I'd ever wanted it. I just told her I was up for trying lots of different things, and she said maybe someday. The thing is, don't push her. It seems to me that lots of women are really nervous about it. Instead of pressuring her (which will lead to lots of stress for her if she gives in, and she won't enjoy it as much under stress!) just let her get used to the idea and let you try it on HER time. If you never get it, don't worry about it! You'll survive. And if and when you do, here are a few more pointers. Don't go from her anus back to any other hole. Just don't. It's simply not safe (for her). Wash up afterward, most certainly. You can wind up with some uglies on your wang if you don't...whether you see it on there or not, you come out with matter on it. Thrusting will create a vacuum, and even if she's vacated, the sex will still suck SOME matter down (usually fluid feces) and you may not even notice if you're properly lubed. And that's the final thing. Make sure you've used a finger or two to get the hole well lubed and loosened. Make sure she's relaxed, or she WILL tear, no matter how gentle you are. It's tender tissue in there, and if you tear, it will REALLY hurt her when next she vacates. If she's used to you playing around in that area, don't be afraid to have her play around yours. Liking stimulation in your ass area has nothing to do with your sexual preference; there are a lot of nerves packed into the area, and it can be very stimulating for both of you. We finger each-others' assholes all the time; it's an awesome turn-on and, if need be, can help push you both over the edge if you're on a schedule. __________________ I can't plug! Huh? Why not?