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I would tend to agree. You know, I've been with the same woman for two and a half years, which has certainly been interesting. What's really terrific is that she's so open. We both started feeling rather bored about a year in, but rather than mess around or bring a third person into it (which we'll do eventually, we just haven't found the right third yet), we've started watching some of the really interesting porn. It occured to us that sameness can get boring after a while, so we started changing things here and there. Once in a while I'd come home and she'd be wearing her hair different, be wearing a different perfume and new clothes. I'd do the same, and we felt like we were doing it with completely different people, yet we were still being faithful to each-other! When all else fails, try a completely new position and close your eyes. Your partner can be anyone you want them to be in the dark, if necessary. Just so this doesn't become too regular of a habit.
It can also help to park in an old spot on a hill where you maybe got your first kicks as a teenage and play around in the car. Once in a great while we'll do this and we feel just like kids again. It can certainly help put some of the mystery and fun into it, especially if you're both into the charade and pretend to be first-timers (really great if she acts shy).
Just play around and try not to get bored. Newness is almost as important to sex as the equipment!
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