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something else that can be going on (not really hate but kinda related i think) is that when you're really into someone, and things start to go bad, you start to notice all of the persons bad qualities that you hadn't noticed before. we like to put our dear ones on pedistals and put our blinders on so that we see only the good stuff. there's a girl who(m) i until a couple months ago had a huge crush on, but that's disappeared since the end of april, and i'm starting to see sides of her that i had ignored or just wouldn't allow myself to see before. i don't hate her, but right now i really question whether or not i want to be friends with her anymore. i think alot of people, when that special someone falls down from the pedistal, are shocked by what they see and don't really handle it well, may even think that they've been tricked by the person. or maybe i'm wrong. or maybe not...
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