ask them out first.....in order to get to know them.......Then decide if they are friend material or relationship material juggle several at first (don't be too available see above) then home in on what you like.
I think if you start from being friends first you are behind the game as far as them considering you as a relationship partner....
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"Iron rusts with disuse, stagnant water loses its purity and in cold water freezes. Even so does inaction sap the vigor of the mind"
Leonardo Da Vinci
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