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Whatever one thinks about any topic is pretty subjective; I don't think random comments about personal opinions are going to help in the advice department...
The bottom line is that cheating is defined uniquely by every couple. There is a generally accepted definition that most people adhere to but what really matters is that everyone is in agreement about what's going on. If one person in a relationship is doing something that makes the other uncomfortable, it's not ok. Regardless of what anyone else's defintions are. It doesn't have to get any more complicated than that. It's about respecting the needs and boundaries of your partner. Some people are ok with their partner sleeping with anyone, as long as they know that partner is coming home to them and some people don't want their partner so much as looking at anyone else in a sexual regard. And... everything inbetween.
You need to talk and establish what boundaries are comfortable for both of you. If someone steps outside those boundaries, that's cheating. And you, personally, need to decide what is a deal-breaker and what isn't. If a deal-breaking line is crossed by the other person, get out. Don't look back. Unless you _like_ drama...
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