i had this a while ago, where I'd always go down on her, and she would rarely go down on me. Then I just talked to her about it. Wondering if she didn't like to do it. Turns out she was just afraid she was bad at it, and then discussed it a little, and now all is well and she loves to do it =).
Communcation is the cornerstone of a good relationship. Also, don't think of it like a "i give you one, you give me one" kind of thing. It's not about that.
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