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urgodhere · 07-07-2003, 10:01 PM

My girlfriend and I are sexually active and most times we dont normally have sex. We normally do alot of other stuff like touching and orals. But most of the time, she seems to be on the recieving end. And by most of the time I mean about every time we do "stuff", i get it once where she gets it 10 times. Kind of an unequal ratio if you ask me. Has anyone else have/had this problem? And if so, are there any solutions that you have come up with to get your equal share? And I am not really searching for a harsh way of telling her to give me a piece, I am looking for a sloution that will not hurt her feelings or hamper the relationship. Thank you for any help.

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urgodhere Banned Location: Limbo	I put out soo much for my g/f, but get little in return. What should I do? My girlfriend and I are sexually active and most times we dont normally have sex. We normally do alot of other stuff like touching and orals. But most of the time, she seems to be on the recieving end. And by most of the time I mean about every time we do "stuff", i get it once where she gets it 10 times. Kind of an unequal ratio if you ask me. Has anyone else have/had this problem? And if so, are there any solutions that you have come up with to get your equal share? And I am not really searching for a harsh way of telling her to give me a piece, I am looking for a sloution that will not hurt her feelings or hamper the relationship. Thank you for any help.