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what is wrong with acknowleging the attractiveness of another person?
If you are in a relationship and you are looking around, how is this "bad"?
It seems to me that the ones who feel that this behaviour is wrong, are the ones with inferiority/insecurity problems.
IF you are in a committed relationship, the fact that you have looked at another woman/man and admired their form is incosequential compared to the overall relationship you are in (well hopefully). Compare it to being on the worlds biggest rollercoaster, and on the other hand having to pull up your sock.
Use these rational abilities you are talking about to control your insecurities, rather than apportion blame to the SO in your relationship.
(as an aside : my SO point out good looking women to me, and we compare notes.)
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