All of the above. Lady on top is definatly the easiest way to go about it, but there is something porn star like about being on your side. It's also really easy to move around and get access to other interesting parts.
My little lady also enjoys being, um, used, for lack of a better word, so if your companion is into this, male on top lets you control everything, just don't choke her (unless she's into that)
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