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Originally posted by HughHugh
Dude man, don't do the stupid thing of telling her, it will come back to haunt you one day,
I did some drugs in college, until this day (19 some years later), I didn't tell a soul, I didn't tell my wife either, and I feel no guilt, I plan to take it to my grave
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i see what you mean...what she doesnt know wont hurt her. but if she does find out, from someone else, then i'd be screwed. i dont want that too happen. the odds are in my favor that if i tell her now that she'll appreciate my honesty and respect me for telling her.
i dont want to get this potential relationship off to the wrong start by hiding things that may or may not affect it.
BTW...why havent you told a soul?