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Originally posted by Cynthetiq
two words... honesty.... trust...
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Exactly the right answer!
The thing is she will be far more hurt to hear stories about it down the road if you two stay together. She will appreciate the honesty now...it means you are trustful, open, honest. That means a LOT.
And it's not like you are telling her you actively do drugs now (ie...hey sweetie, I forgot to mention I'm a dope-head). You are telling her something about you...your history....the past - I mean hey, we all have crazy stories to tell, some good...some not so good but that's a part of life and if it's in the past, well...that's a part of who you are, too.
I would rather hear the "stories" from my guy himself and know he trusted me enough to share them then just hear it later on from a buddy's story of "Hey, you wouldn't believe the time we did this...".
Be honest...be forward with her....it'll travel far.