Can girls join? And it's only solo play ban, not all out celibacy?
Btw, I can tell from the smell if I go down on my bf if he has masturbated on his own (and not taken a shower since). He freaked out when he learnt I know cos at first he thought I have sixth sense about it before he had guts to ask and I said it's the mild smell of sperm. Men are funny sometimes.
Sleepyjack:
Read it somewhere that people start to get wet dreams sometimes if they go without sex, but if a man doesn't masturbate the extra semen will just get out of the system in urine.
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So why is masturbation bad, you ask?
Sex is for procreation only.
Masturbation is unnatural, it leads to homosexuality.
Masturbation is based on lust.
Masturbation is addictive.
Masturbation is a solitary act. Sex is meant for a married man and woman.
Masturbation is a symptom of [spiritual] immaturity.
Masturbation is an impure act.
God watches us all the time. The argument for shame and self-policing.
Masturbate is the unforgivable sin.
From "The Christian History of Masturbation"
by Miss Poppy Dixon
http://www.postfun.com/pfp/masturbation/