One of the best things to do is to slowly reduce the amount you smoke, although it sounds so cliche it works on about 10% of people who try it, doesn't sound like a very good percentage but heys its better than 0%. But anyways while you reduce your intake you could find something to do that would keep you occupied for the time being. For people that i have talked to they mainly spent more time with their friends at social gatherings. This is a double positive for you. Getting closer with friends and giving up the old nicotine.
Good Luck, Just keep a still head and remember the reason why you are doing it then you'll be fine. This lady obviously sounds special if you are willing to give up smoking because of her, so you shouldn't lack the modavation.
