This thing happened to me at the beginning of my relationship. Her whole family would not approve of our relationship (not her parents, uncles, aunts or granparents
). They said she was too young, that we weren't mature enough, etc, etc, etc....
Here's the reason why her parents finally approved:
- Her older sisters talked to their parents to try and convince them
- Most of her family already knew me and my family
- They know how responsible and intelligent I am
Now, our relationship has lasted for over a year
But still, most of her uncles/aunts still do not approve our relationship (which is a big deal considering how close their family is) and her grandparents still don't acknowledge us as a couple
kamui, you're doing OK by being polite and very nice to him. Does he know you well? Cuz it would really help if he knew you for who you actually are... Also, try to get some members of her family on your side, and they can try to talk to her father... You need to show him your determination as well...
I hope my advice is useful... and if you really love her things will turn out for the best... you'll see
GOOD LUCK