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Well, this is a tough one. The father is the same as a white father with a daughter with a black boyfriend. He doesn’t like you because he is old fashioned (so they like to say) and he is afraid you will hurt his daughter. Only time can fix the problem. He needs to know that you are the one his daughter has chosen and that you will treat her like she deserves to be treated.
Without knowing more detail it is hard to give any more advice than this. Depending on how religious she is and how into Chinese culture she is it is hard to say what else you could do. If they are very into their culture then maybe you could start showing interest in it. Let her father know you are willing to accept what she is and possibly adopt some of it yourself.
Hope this helps a little.
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