my current girlfriend hate touching down there with hands for some reason. It really bothers her (which kinda drives me nuts), but in the past, I know I have gotten the best reaction from using actual penetration sparingly and mostly staying in the neighborhood of the clit using at least a couple fingers. But as mentioned before, everyone seems to have their own preferences, best to let the one you're with tell you what they need.
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