If activity changes from before to after you're married, then there are some obvious communication issues there. To me, that says that the activity was undertaken as a way to "keep" the other person and now that they're married it's no longer "required." That's a failure just waiting to happen as far as I see it.
At most, I can understand marriage making things happen MORE often rather than less often.
If a couple partakes in oral sex before marriage, there's no reason to stop after they're married. Just because they're married it doesn't mean they're restricted to standard intercourse
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