| From the side how?  Facing towards her front or back?  Never done it from the back, I find eye contact almost completely necessary.  Can't get as deep from the side, but it's very relaxing.  It is also difficult.  I wish I had some good advice, but basically just have her raise her top leg slightly and do your best.  It's like learning to whistle; hard to explain, but once you get it the first time, it comes very much easier. |